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Anonymous asked: okay so I saved up and bought myself a lilly for graduation because you only graduate once and I did really well. I was so happy and showed my friends my dress. One of my friends texts me today and she asks if she can buy the same lilly as me... she already got the same lilly I got for a 16th bday present. I felt like a bitch to say no so I said just don't wear it before graduation. I found out she's wearing it to senior dinner friday Im kinda pissed off right now. Do you think I'm overreacting?

ok first of all, totally honored that someone liked my blog enough to ask me for advice, thanks ! ok so , a) take into consideration that she did call you and ask b) did she do as you asked and not wear it before graduation? and were you planning on wearing the dress to the senior dinner as well? I honestly dont think that you are overracting, i would be mad too, however depending on how close you are with this girl, i would explain to her that you saved up and were really looking forward ot wearing this dress and that maybe she wear it to a graduation party or something later. But, again i do not think that you were over reacting I would be mad too, especially since she brought the same one that you had for you 16th…..also though you have to consider how close you are to this girl and would your friendship and all the good times you have together if you are that close, and worst comes to worse, wear it a different way then she does, do your hair different pair it with different shoes and jewlery, in life we’ve got to accessorize the outfit we’ve been given! Hope this helped and please come back if you need anything else my ask is always open honayy ! :*